John W. Quinn

A note from a Navy Mom about Someone Like Me -

2011-05-22T14:10:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone! I received a wonderful note from a Navy Mom yesterday and was so moved by what she had to say that I wanted to pass it along. After getting her permission, I am honored to share it with you -

"...bare with me, I'm long-winded. ...but I'm a Navy Mom, Sr. Chief, you gotta give me this. ;)

My oldest is in the Navy, has been in Japan, the last two years, has almost sent me to a padded room over the course of the last few months with the earthquake, tsunami & nuclear disaster...anyhoo...he is on United States soil now. :D. He's been at a "school" for the past month. He finished on Friday, and his 30 day leave started at 1600.

Well, his brother/partner in crime/best friend told him we'd come pick him up, road trip style. Phoenix to San Diego and back all in one day. Ethan (Sailor's younger brother) and I left yesterday at about 10:30....he had queued up the Ipod, and we were well on our way to an epic roadtrip, filled with great music, Monsters, Sunflower Seeds and some good laughs......except that you joined us at about Hwy 85 & I-10. I was about half way through your book on my kindle, and well...I was getting antsy, I wanted to read some more. ....it was at about the part you were being assigned to Seal Team THREE. ...I read a quote and he was hooked....turned down the Ipod, and I said you want me to keep reading, he said, Sure Mom. :)....we finished your book yesterday, and it was one of the best road trips on record. ...between him and I. I don't have to tell you there are some tough topics at 60%+ in your book.

We got to San Diego and Tyler (my sailor) is so pumped to be on leave...and starts chatting, so how was the ride over...Ethan answered, it was great. Mom read me a book about a Sailor and she cried like 5 times, but it was a really good book. :)

So, I just wanted to let you know, you don't know it, but you traveled with a Navy Mom and her ASU kid to pick up their Sailor in San Diego yesterday, and it was a road trip that will forever be remembered....and the whole, "the Eagle has landed" line....well...I'm carrying on that tradition with my ASU kid with my sailor that has no idea...because as he was waiting outside the 32nd street gates...and we were trying to finangle our way around to pick him up...I said, just yell...."the EAGLE has LANDED...stay right there....we'll come to him and pick him up...he was carrying a seabag, a monster suitcase, a carry-on and a backpack...it was the least we could do. :D

Thank you for putting your story to paper. Your persistence is nothing short of awe-inspiring. And a huge thank you for your service to this great nation of ours, and to the finest Navy on the planet.

Godspeed, John Quinn, I hope only good things for you in the future and that book reaches the best seller list!
Take care. "

This is what it's all about my friends!

Go Navy!

John

www.johnwquinn.com

Tucson Festival of Books -

2011-03-13T16:46:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! I had a great time at the 2011 Tucson Festival of Books. Its so nice that there is a book festival in my hometown! From the hard working volunteers manning the author's tent; people who came up to ask me questions about my life with CP; to readers coming up telling me how much they loved reading Someone Like Me, it was a thrill for me to be there!

Article about my recent trip to Atlanta -

2011-03-12T11:20:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone! Just wanted to share this article from a local Atlanta newspaper about the great work that the Reaching For The Stars Foundation is doing. Well Done to my friends Cynthia Frisina-Gray and Michael Kutcher for their dedication!

http://www.northfulton.com/Articles-c-2011-03-11-186226.114126-sub-Alpharetta-mom-raises-awareness-for-cerebral-palsy.html#123

Sea Cadet uses Someone Like Me as motivation - Named Sea Cadet of the Year!

2011-03-06T18:21:00.000-08:00

I received this email today and was so proud of this young man that I have to share! Well Done, Matthew!

Senior Chief Quinn,

I'm not sure if you remember me or not Chief, but I am the Sea Cadet with CP who contacted you a couple of months ago. Today I received a medal from the Navy League and was named Cadet of the Year for my unit and I felt I owed it to you to tell you how much your story has helped me to push myself. Despite opposition from some officers I was able to attend cadet boot camp this past summer and Petty Officer Leadership Academy at the Senior Enlisted Academy this winter, which due in large part to you I was the Honor Graduate of my company at. Knowing that there is a precedent for what I am trying to accomplish and having such a fantastic role model like you has inspired me more than you could know. Whenever I am daunted by the difficulty of my situation I can be eased by your accomplishments. I want to sincerely thank you for forging a path for me and perhaps increasing my chances of being accepted into the actual Navy one day. Thank you very much Chief.

Sincerely,
Seaman Matthew BeDugnis USNSCC

www.johnwquinn.com

Laugh Yourself Blue For Cerebral Palsy -

2011-03-05T08:02:00.000-08:00

The great folks at the Reaching For The Stars Foundation are holding a fundraiser in Cedar Rapids, Iowa on Saturday, April 2nd. Come Laugh Yourself Blue For Cerebral Palsy - featuring comedian Josh Blue. Get your tickets now and support this wonderful event!

Here are the details -

http://www.reachingforthestars.org/Iowa/

Thanks so much! Keep charging - John

www.johnwquinn.com

Speech Given at the CDC in Atlanta -

2011-03-05T07:20:00.000-08:00

Recently, I was contacted by the wonderful people of the Reaching For the Stars Foundation and the Center for Disease Control in Atlanta and asked to come into town and say a few words. I've posted them below for you and I hope you enjoy them.

I want to thank everyone at the CDC and the Reaching for the Stars Foundation for making my trip such a success. Of special note, I want to thank Cynthia Frisina Gray for being such a wonderful host and my new friend, Michael Kutcher for being an inspiration to this old sailor. You both are amazing people - Thanks for everything!

Here is a link to the Reaching For the Stars Foundation. Check them out and help spread the word of hope for children with cerebral palsy.

http://www.reachingforthestars.org/

What do you want to be when you grow up?

That question has been posed to kids as long as there have been family reunions, pesky relatives, and wedding receptions. I remember being asked that question and after careful consideration, proclaimed “I’m gonna be a baseball player.” The next week it was a policeman like my father and the week after that, a movie star.

When I was 11 years old, my oldest brother, Michael came home on leave after completing Navy boot camp. I remember his short hair, shiny black shoes, and the way his dog tags jingled around his neck. He looked and acted so different from the person who had left three months prior that it made a big impression on me. I silently told myself that if I ever had the opportunity to join the Navy that is what I really wanted to do. I would run home from school, grab a snack, go up to my bedroom and, thanks to the writings of Michener, Wolk, and Steinbeck, be instantly transported to exotic places like Hawaii, Hong Kong, or Egypt. I would dream of one day leaving my middle-class existence and walking the streets of those cities as a United States Sailor.

When it came to serving my country, dreaming was as far as I thought it would go. You see, I was born with cerebral palsy. I couldn’t walk on my own until age four, was partially paralyzed on the right side of my body, and my left foot is two and a half sizes smaller than the other. I wore thick glasses, walked with a limp and was so skinny that my clothes literally hung from my body like a dried-up scarecrow. I was laughed at, bullied by most everyone and struggled to find my place in the world.

Any success I’ve had in my life is due to the way I was raised by my parents, Edgar and Shirley. One of eight kids (in a one bathroom home) the fact that I had cerebral palsy was really no big deal in our house. Yes, I had to go through grueling physical therapy twice a week, wear eye patches and “special” orthopedic shoes, but my CP was not the focal point of the Quinn household. I don’t ever remember it being discussed at the family dinner table. I was just one of eight kids, and that’s the way I liked it. My parents told me that I could do just about anything that I put my mind to and let me go out and find my own way in the world. From trying to ice skate, sled down the appropriately named Dead Man’s Hill to joining the wrestling team, I would try something, fall, and try again. When I tumbled, they didn’t automatically come rushing over to pick me up. They knew that as someone born with cerebral palsy, life was going to be tougher for me and wanted to see if I would rise on my own. I remember one wrestling match in high school where my opponent threw me with such force that I landed off the mat, my head striking the hard gym floor. Mom, who was in the bleachers, came down and asked my coach one question “Is there any blood?” “No, Mrs. Quinn, Johnny just got knocked out. He’ll come to in a second.” “Okay,” said my mother, as she made her way back up into the stands. Find a way to get up on your own, son.

When I told my mom and dad of my life-long dream of joining the Navy, they patted me on the back and wished me luck. I’m not sure, but I think they had their fingers crossed behind their backs.

Well, I failed the entrance physical needed to join the military. I fell over when ordered to get down in a catcher's squat. I was too weak to hold up my own body weight and was told the Navy couldn't use someone like me.

Arriving home in shame, I told Dad that I couldn't pass the physical because it was too hard. My father looked me square in the eye and said, "John, life is hard. Question is, what are you going to do about it?"

The next day found me down in the basement struggling to get into that catcher's squat. I worked out every day for a year in that musty cellar, and then tried to join the Navy again. I passed this time with flying colors. I think I was the best duck-walker in the entire building.

So for the next 20 years, I served in the United States Navy sailing around the world on aircraft carriers, battleships, and destroyers. No one knew about my disability. I stood every watch, took the toughest assignments and lived the life of a sailor at sea. I am occasionally asked, “Why did you keep your CP a secret for so long? Were you embarrassed by the fact that you have cerebral palsy?” No, I am not embarrassed by my CP. I kept it a secret from Navy officials so that I could have the same opportunity as everyone else. I wanted that level playing field, to be judged on my ability, not my disability. I didn’t want to be known as “that sailor with cerebral palsy.” I just wanted to be the best sailor that I could be. Come to find out, I had the ability to be a very good sailor, rising to the rank of Senior Chief Petty Officer, the second highest enlisted rank one can achieve. Some who have served with me have called me the finest sailor they have ever met. I take great pride in this and am honored to have had the opportunity to serve my country.

Shortly after I retired from the Navy, and living back in my hometown, I received a call from my best friend, Phil Freeman. Phil is the principal of Pioneer Middle School in Plymouth, Michigan and requested my assistance with a young boy named Trevor, who would be attending the sixth grade. Phil had shared some of my story with Trevor’s family and they wanted to meet me. Would I be interested? You bet! So, on the morning of sixth grade orientation, I was introduced to Trevor and his entire family, including his grandparents. I believe it’s the first time that they had ever met an adult with the same handicap as their boy, someone who had overcome the odds to lead a successful, happy life. We recognized our common symptoms from across the room. My experiences helped educate the family and made me realize that I had an obligation to help others by sharing my story.

That is exactly what is happening. The comments that I’ve received since Someone Like Me has been released are remarkable and I find that I’m the one being inspired by my readers. For example, a woman from Colorado writes:

“…so much of what you describe both physically and emotionally I have been thru or felt. Thank you for telling my story…”

A father of a young boy with CP writes from Missouri:

“Just finished Someone Like Me. To say your story is inspirational would be an understatement. This book is for everyone who ever thought or said the words "I can't..." It also helps fill the long ignored information void regarding living with cerebral palsy as an adult.”

Another reader sent in this note:

“Thank you for writing your book. By sharing your amazing story, I now have hope for my son, who just turned two and has been diagnosed with cerebral palsy. Can you sign a book for him? I plan to put it way and then hand it to him when he is old enough. It’s so nice to know there are successful people living their life with CP…”

I’ve even received comments from readers as far away as India, Greece and this note from a mom living in England:

“Dear Mr. Quinn. I want to send you a big thank you for writing this book. The last line of your book states that we are never alone; that there is always hope. I plan on repeating those words to my young son whenever he feels down and out…”

You all have greatness inside you. Each and every one of you has worth. Do not let your disability stop you from achieving the things in life that you want to do. Let’s take a closer look at that word disability. I am not an English major, but I know that the prefix “dis” means the absence of. So the word disability means the absence of ability. If that’s the case, then yes, I have a disability. I cannot do fractions. In fact, when it comes to anything having to do with math, I struggle mightily. Don’t call me for home improvements or car repairs, because I don’t know which end of the screwdriver to hold. Another disability.

But there are many areas of my life in which I am very capable. Some big, others small. Everyone has some ability to offer this world. You just have to find it. It might be hidden deep down inside you, just yearning to come out. For my disabled friends, don’t let your handicap hold you back. Don’t listen to the people that tell you it cannot be done. My parents told me that I could do anything that I put my mind to and I believe that to be true for anyone, regardless of obstacles faced. If you don’t push yourself to find your ability, who will? Franklin Delano Roosevelt suffered with polio and became President of the United States. Albert Einstein didn’t talk until the age of three. What would the world be like if these people had given up? Can you imagine FDR saying, “I can’t do it, it’s too hard.”

Have you always wanted to paint but thought it was a waste of time? Perhaps you've felt a strong desire to get up on stage in your community theater but were ridiculed when you shared your dream out loud? I have been laughed at. Most people thought it was nuts for a guy with cerebral palsy to even dream of joining the Navy. When I decided I wanted to write my memoir, some scoffed. “You’ve never written anything before. What makes you think you can write a book?” You'll learn there are people in this world that will place roadblocks in your way and smile as they do it. These folks will use words like "impossible"; "never"; or phrases like, "That's the way it's always been done around here." Whenever I encounter these people, I just smile, store their comment away and use it as fuel to achieve my goal.

I’m going to let you in on another secret. Just because you do things differently, does not mean that it’s wrong. It’s just different. Think of it as your own unique way of getting things done – your own style. When I run, I run differently. My arms don’t swing naturally and my left foot turns inward as I move forward. You can hear me coming from a mile away as my flat feet hit the pavement. But that’s just the way that I run. I cannot change my stride. It’s considered different, but I still run. You should not be embarrassed if you need to use a power chair, walker or breathing device to help you live the life you want for yourself. It’s what you have to do. Please use every resource as your disposal so that you can achieve the greatness that’s inside you. I want you to become so good at what you do that people look past your disability and see you for the wonderful person that you are.

To the doctors and therapists here today, I have a message for you as well. I cannot tell you how many parents I’ve met who, after introducing me to their son or daughter, said, “You know, the doctors stated that my little Susan would never -you can fill in the blank here – walk without assistance; speak; go to school; live a full and productive life. Parents are looking for hope and I think it’s time we give it to them. Let’s raise the bar up and tell parents, in a time when they need it most, what is possible with hard work, sacrifice, and the miracle of modern medicine. Dr. Edward Hurvitz, Departmental Chair of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation at the University of Michigan agreed when he wrote about my book:

“...my goal has always been to open doors and increase opportunities for young people with disabilities. However, I see that I have not advised my patients to push the horizon enough. I now know that given determination, bravery and desire, much more is possible for my patients than I could imagine before. This book is a must for every physician, therapist, and other caregiver that treats individuals with cerebral palsy or any other disability. It also is a must for every young person who ever looked at a goal and thought it was just out of reach. Perhaps he or she should look again."

You want to know what I look forward to? I look forward to the day when a parent comes up to me and says, “John, the doctors told me that my daughter would one day graduate from high school, but I didn’t believe them. You know what, Mr. Quinn? I was wrong. My Kathy graduated last week!” I say the future is unwritten and last time I checked, there is no medical test that measures the depth of the human spirit. Great things are possible.

So, let me ask you again.

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Thank you all very much.

www.johnwquinn.com

Interview in Ann Arbor paper -

2011-01-17T16:35:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone! I hope everyone is doing well. I wanted to share an interview that was just posted in the online newspaper that serves Ann Arbor, Michigan and the surrounding community - including the University of Michigan. I hope you enjoy it and share it will all your friends and co-workers.

http://www.annarbor.com/entertainment/books/an-interview-with-john-w-quinn-author-of-the-inspirational-memoir-someone-like-me-an-unlikely-story/

All the best in the New Year!

John

www.johnwquinn.com

Take a Veteran to School Day Article -

2010-11-20T08:58:00.001-08:00

Hi everyone!

It was my honor to participate in such a great event. Nice to have Someone Like Me get a mention in this article as well!

http://www.eaglenewsca.com/articles/2010/11/18/news/news01.txt

All the best -

John

www.johnwquinn.com

My Speech Given at the University of Michigan -

2010-10-31T14:43:00.000-07:00

I want to personally thank you, Doctor, not only for that warm introduction, but also for the wonderful review you provided for my book. When my publisher asked me if I knew of any institution that I could contact about endorsing Someone Like Me, my first thought was of the University of Michigan. To have someone of your stature, with the fine men and women of this esteemed institution behind it, gave my memoir instant credibility and this author a shot of much needed confidence as I neared publication. Thank you very much.

It is a true honor for me to be here today. You see, I grew up a Michigan fan in a Michigan house. Some of my earliest memories center around Maize and Blue football. I remember many a Saturday afternoon in Garden City, my entire family of ten huddled around the nineteen-inch Zenith, living and dying with the heroic efforts of Leach, Lydle and Huckabee. I remember one game of the 1979 season in particular. I was upstairs in my bedroom listening to Bob Ufer call the final seconds of an epic Big Ten battle as my mom called me down for dinner. “The game’s almost over, Ma. Just a few more seconds.” There were actually six seconds left, and when Anthony Carter scored on that pass from Johnny Wangler, shedding Indiana defenders along the way, I don’t know who was more excited, me or Mr. Ufer, who was honking that crazy horn of his with everything he had.

So it was no surprise that I was in front of my set on 4 September of this year watching the Wolverine’s season opener against Connecticut. That’s when I first learned the story of Brock Mealer. As many of you know, Brock was involved in a car accident on Christmas Eve 2007 that left him paralyzed from the belly button down. Having fractured his T-12 and L-1, vertebrae, doctors told Brock and his family that he would be confined to a wheelchair for the rest of his life and that he had a 1% chance of ever walking again. Mr. Mealer is quoted in saying, “One of the most vivid memories I have is the surgeon just giving me the news that this is the best I could hope for,” he said. “They always wanted me to accept that fact.”

I want you to think about something here. Doctors actually told this man that he had a 1% chance of ever walking again. When I first heard this, I got angry. Real angry. What medical professional would ever tell a patient that they have a 1% chance of doing anything? But then I thought about it a bit, my anger subsided and a smile came to my face. 1% Perfect. It’s all you need.

I remember being angry at doctors before, specifically military doctors. It was October 1980 and, after failing the entrance physical, was just told the Navy couldn’t use someone like me. I flunked the exam because I was born with cerebral palsy and my body just wasn’t strong enough to hit the standard set by government officials. The next day found me down in the basement of my childhood home, working hard to get stronger, both physically and mentally. As I willed my body forward, one painful step at a time, a constant thought keep driving me onward, “How dare they tell me I cannot do this.” I knew I had the ability to be a good sailor. I just needed the chance to prove myself. Twenty-two years later, I retired as a Senior Chief Petty Officer of the United States Navy. Having sailed around the world on carriers and battleships, I looked out into San Diego Bay during my retirement ceremony and thought, “Not bad for a guy who was told to go home.”

I love the fact that the event we are celebrating is called Investing in Ability Week. The word disability really bothers me. Look at the word again. I am not an English major, but I know that the prefix “dis” means the absence of. So the word disability means the absence of ability. If that’s the case, then yes, I have a disability. I cannot do fractions. In fact, when it comes to anything having to do with math, I struggle mightily. When discussing home improvements or car repairs, I don’t know which end of the screwdriver to hold. Another disability.

But there are many areas of my life in which I am very capable. Some big, others small. Everyone has some ability to offer this world. You just have to find it. You might walk different, stand different or have to use a device to help you get around. Remember this – having to do things outside the scope of what’s considered “normal” does not mean that it’s wrong or unsuccessful. It’s just different. Work hard and find the way that works best for you, your own unique style. Push the bar, flex the bar! Letting others set limits for you by either their words, expectations or their attitude gives them control over your life and potential achievements. Don’t let your handicap hold you back. By using our differences as an excuse for failure, we will never be able to rise up to our own personal level of greatness that lives inside each and every one of us.

Franklin Delano Roosevelt suffered with polio and became President of the United States. Albert Einstein didn’t talk until the age of three and was severely dyslexic. The English author/poet Milton lost his sight at the age of 43 and then wrote the classic tale Paradise Lost. How about Army CAPT David Rozelle , who lost his right ankle and foot as a result of injuries he suffered when his Humvee was destroyed by an anti-tank mine during the early days of Operation Iraqi Freedom. Captain Rozelle worked hard to become qualified for a return to active duty, and did so just nine months after his traumatic injury. He became the first amputee to return to duty in a combat zone. What would the world be like if these people had given up? Can you imagine FDR saying, “I can’t do it, it’s too hard.”

The time has come to start focusing on people’s ability, not their disability. Tell patients what they can do, not what they cannot. If you set the bar of expectations low for people; they will hit it every time. Let’s give them a 99% chance of success, not 1% Let’s give people hope and show them what is possible. You put it very well, Doctor Hurvitz, in your endorsement of my memoir, when you stated, I see that I have not advised my patients to push the horizon enough. Thanks to John, I now know that given determination, bravery and desire, much more is possible for my patients than I could imagine before. John’s story is a must for every young person who ever looked at a goal and thought it was just out of reach. Perhaps he or she should look again."

When Brock led the Michigan football team out onto the field on that September morning, accompanied by his brother, he actually walked, on his own two feet. This warrior was also wearing a blue t-shirt that said simply “1%” I saw this and laughed out loud, not at Brock, but because I understood exactly what that percentage meant. As Brock approached the fabled M Go Blue Banner that all players run under and touch before each game, I noticed that the bar was raised just high enough for Brock to reach up….

And hit.

Hail to the Victors, valiant.

Thank you very much.

www.johnwquinn.com

Hey! All You Fans of Barnes and Nobles Nook -

2010-10-15T22:49:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone!

I just received word that Someone Like Me is now available for download onto your Nook E-Book readers! I am very excited about this and glad to be able to pass the following link to you!

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Someone-Like-Me/John-W-Quinn/e/9781933909080/?itm=1&USRI=someone+like+me

Thanks for all the support and please pass the word to anyone you know that has an e-book reader!

Keep charging!

John

www.johnwquinn.com

Author John Quinn's Speech to the Tucson VA -

2010-10-14T21:14:00.001-07:00

Thanks for that warm introduction. I appreciate the opportunity to be here today.

Courage is defined in Webster’s dictionary as – The mental or moral strength to venture, persevere and withstand danger, fear or difficulty.

Under honor, it says – The showing of unusually merited respect.

Commitment means – The state or instance of being obligated or emotionally impelled.

Military veterans of this great country know these three words very well. They are not just some corporate slogan dreamed up by an advertising firm to sell you a pickup truck. These words have meaning, depth and feeling. Veterans have lived these words, on the beaches of Normandy; the jungles of Vietnam, or the desert of Iraq. When a young man or woman willingly raises their right hand and swears an oath to protect and defend this nation against all enemies, foreign and domestic, they are demonstrating, for the entire world to see, the true meaning of courage, honor and commitment.

As many veterans know, living up to those words sometimes comes at a heavy price. Whether it was fighting house to house to liberate a small French town; working hard to regain some frozen piece of ground on a Korean peninsula; or manning a vital checkpoint in the hills of Afghanistan, military members have lived a life and experienced things that their civilian friends and family often have a hard time comprehending. So what do a high percentage of veterans do? Many return home, pack away their uniform, and keep his or her experiences to themselves. He or she keeps it secret perhaps because they don’t want to burden family members or society with their troubles. Maybe they subconsciously believe that they can forget all that’s happened, and in forgetting make them just go away. Besides, the soldier thinks, I am tough; I can handle this. I don’t need anyone’s help.

I know about secrets and the heavy price one pays for keeping them. I was born with cerebral palsy and kept that condition a secret for my entire 20 year naval career. The decision to do this was made by an 18 year old boy who wanted to wear the uniform of his nation. Looking back on it, I wish I would have told the truth about having a disability from the very start. But I didn’t think the military would have let me in and I wanted the same opportunity as everyone else. I did not want to be known as “that sailor with cerebral palsy,” I wanted to be known as a sailor.

As physically demanding as serving in the Navy with cerebral palsy was, with its four-hour watches, fire-drills and rolling decks, it was even harder for me emotionally. I had no one to confide in about the day-to-day challenges that someone with cerebral palsy faces. When the steady stream of “What’s wrong with you?” got to be too much, I couldn’t say, “Hey, I have CP, don’t you know how hard all this is for me?” Keeping my disability from government officials who would have possibly kicked me out of the Navy had they of known about my condition was the hardest secret I’ve ever kept, but not the only one.

On April 22nd, 1987, my older brother Steve committed suicide at the age of 26. Being home on leave at the time of this shocking and tragic event, I helped clean up the mess he left behind by wiping blood down off the walls in his kitchen. My supervisor and I both decided at the time that we would keep the nature of how my brother died to ourselves. I thought, “I’m tough, I can handle this. I don’t need anyone’s help.” I was wrong. Three months later, I called the local crisis hotline, begging to talk to someone who understood. I believe making that call saved my life.

On the 4th of July, 1998, I was arrested for drunk driving. My chain of command was shocked that a top senior chief petty officer would wind up in the local jail. I was not surprised. As good as I was drinking beer, I was even better at hiding my massive daily consumption. Besides, I didn’t think I had a problem. I thought I could quit drinking anytime I wanted to. Come to find out, I could not, and my arrest was really a long overdue cry for help. Entering a 12-step program, I quickly realized that I am an alcoholic and I indeed needed help. I have not had a drink of alcohol since.

Here’s another definition from Webster’s I found appropriate. The word tough. The dictionary states someone who is tough is Characterized by severity or uncompromising determination; capable of enduring strain; hardship or severe labor.

I was raised to be tough. My dad was a cop, so we were brought up by the book of tough. Chapter one of that book is titled - Don’t show emotion, handle your problems by yourself and don’t ask for help. As a military man, I used to follow that code, and thought of myself as a tough person. Maybe I am, I don’t know. I can tell you this – As tough as I thought I was, a bottle of beer nearly defeated me. The suicide of my brother almost killed me and keeping my cerebral palsy under wraps damn near drove me crazy.

I share all this with you for one purpose. If you are a veteran and are suffering, let us help you. It’s okay to ask for help. I know that it’s a difficult thing for many vets to admit that they need help in tackling a problem or issue that they feel is beyond their control. You might look at getting help as a sign of weakness. I’ve learned that it’s actually a sign of strength. Its true emotional toughness to reach out, risking discomfort and vulnerability to face the pain of probing into the past. In addition to helping yourself, who knows - openly talking about your issues might also help others.

Helping people is one of the primary reasons why I wrote my memoir Someone Like Me. I thought if I wrote about having cerebral palsy; my battle with the bottle; or of Steven’s suicide; that someone might read about my experiences and realize, “Hey, I can relate to this guy, maybe I need to get some help too.” You know what? That’s exactly what’s happening. Since the first week the book has been out, people all over the world have written me letters of thanks and sharing their own experiences of how my book has helped them. It’s a strange, but wonderful feeling, knowing that the most painful issues of my life are now helping others all over the country.

It’s been said that you are only as sick as your secrets. Looking back on my life, I realize that I was sick for a long time without fully knowing it. The act of writing my book and putting my deepest fears on display for the entire world to read has proven very therapeutic for this navy man. It’s as if the weight of the world has been lifted off my shoulders.

It feels great to tell the truth.

Veterans – Let the truth set you free. I encourage all warriors in need to come on in, sit down and talk with the professional men and women of the Veterans Administration. They have programs specifically designed to ease your burden and get you back on track. Whether you suffer from a substance abuse issue like myself; need information on housing assistance or seek quality medical care; the VA wants to help – but you have to want to help yourself.

Just remember a couple of things –

You are never alone.

There is always hope.

May God Bless you all and may God continue to bless this great nation.

Thank you.

Attention All Kindle Fans!

2010-10-14T21:06:00.001-07:00

I just found out that Someone Like Me is now available for download onto your Kindle! Many of you have asked me about this as I travel the country and I'm excited to offer this for you! Here is the link to the Amazon Kindle Store.

http://www.amazon.com/Someone-Like-Me-ebook/dp/B0046ZTE20/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&m=AG56TWVU5XWC2&s=digital-text&qid=1287108272&sr=1-1

I hope you enjoy it and please make sure to tell your friends and family! I think E-Readers are wonderful, especially for our troops deployed so far from home.

For all you fans of the Barnes and Noble Nook, I haven't forgotten about you. My memoir will be available to you very shortly, within the next few days. I will post again when I get a Nook update.

Thanks so much!

John

Lastest News on Someone Like Me -

2010-10-10T19:01:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone! I hope you all are doing well. I wanted to give you an update on everything that is going on with Someone Like Me.

- I just received word from my publisher that Someone Like Me will be available for download onto Kindle/Nook and IPad late next week (15 October). Many of my readers have asked for this and I am very excited to soon offer this capability for you. As a career Navy man, I can just imagine sailors onboard ship or troops deployed overseas downloading my memoir onto their e-readers. Amazing! I will post another update when the exact date is firmed up. Thanks for all your patience,

- I will be speaking at the Tucson Veteran Administation Building on Thursday, 14 October at 1130 as part of Mental Health Awareness Week. There will be live music, food and much more. I hope you can stop by and say hello.

- I will be traveling back to my home state of Michigan to speak at the University of Michigan's Investing in Ability Week. I will be speaking on 27 October at 1:30pm. Here is a link with all the details. I am honored to be asked to share a few thoughts and I hope to see you there.

http://www.lib.umich.edu/gallery/events/someonelikeme

- On Saturday, 6 November, I am honored to take part of the 2010 Flag Still Stands For Freedom Veteran's Day Virtual Telethon. I am scheduled to be on at 1000 EST. Here is a link to provide you with more details of what I am sure will be a great event!

http://flagstillstandsforfreedom.com/2010/08/23/someone-like-me/

- For all my San Diego friends, I will be in Coronado the week of 8 November. Having spent a good portion of my Navy career in San Diego, it will be great to be back to a place I consider a second home. Hope to see many of my friends during my stay. While in town, I will be addressing the Special Education Parents Advisory Committee (SEPAC) during their monthly meeting. The November meeting is scheduled for 9 November at 5:30pm. Here is a link with more details.

http://coronadosepac.blogspot.com/

- Attention Tucson! Mark your calendars for 10 December! That is when I will be having a book signing at Golds Gym (North) from 8am-10:30am. If you remember, I had a signing at Golds back in April, and it was a blast! The Golds Gym staff have been great in their support of Someone Like Me and I thank them for this opportunity. Books will be on sale for 15.00 (cash/check) and they will make a great Christmas gift for a friend or family member. Here is a link to the Golds Gym (North) location.

http://www.goldsgym.com/gyms/index.php?gymID=0694

That's it for updates! Thanks for all the cards, letters, Facebook postings and Tweets - You all are amazing and I really appreciate you taking the time out of your busy lives to contact me to say how much Someone Like Me has meant to you. Please continue to tell your friends, family and co-workers and have a wonderful night!

John

My Interview in Exceptional Family Magazine -

2010-09-03T06:44:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! I wanted to pass along this interview that I did recently with Exceptional Family magazine. It appears in the September 2010 edition.

I hope you like it!

http://www.eparentdigital.com/nxtbooks/exceptionalparent/201009/#/52

Thanks for all the support!

John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

The Flag Still Stands For Freedom Veteran's Day Telethon -

2010-08-23T13:46:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone!

I am excited to tell you about an upcoming event that I will be a part of. Its the Flag Still Stands For Freedom's 2010 Veteran's Day Virtual Telethon. The funds raised during the telethon will help support numerous veteran's groups around the country. I am honored to participate. The telethon is scheduled for Saturday, 6 November. I will be appearing via webcam at 1000 EST.

Here is link to what is sure to be a fantastic event! Please mark your calendars!

http://flagstillstandsforfreedom.com/2010/08/23/someone-like-me/

All the best - John

www.johnwquinn.com

Brenna's Book Report -

2010-08-05T21:01:00.000-07:00

I received a wonderful note in the mail the other day from my friend, Stacy Stanecki from Eden Prairie, Minnesota. Enclosed was a book report that her daughter, Brenna did for school on my book Someone Like Me. Brenna will be entering the 10th grade this fall and here is her report:

Someone Like Me

The biography Someone Like Me by John W. Quinn is the heartwarming story of a young boy with cerebral palsy who has big dream of being in the Navy, and all of the pain he went through to get there. In his book, John Quinn has proved that anything is possible, and anyone can reach their dreams.

John’s story is his tale of, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” Every day when he was young, and when he was in the Navy, John had many problems relating to cerebral palsy, alcohol, and the tragic losses of his close family member, yet he still manages to reach the second highest enlisted rank in the Navy. In the end, John leaves us with one message; “You are never alone, there is always hope.”

This book is one of the most memorable and interesting books I’ve ever read. It speaks an important message, and fills anyone who reads it with instant joy and hope. At times I laughed, and others I cried. Now that I know more about this remarkable man, I have someone that I can really look up to. From now on, I’ll be sure to encourage anyone and everyone to do their best, just like John.

Hope. Perseverance. Strength. Those three words sum up exactly what this book is about. After keeping his cerebral palsy a secret for 20 years, John W. Quinn is now teaching people across America about cerebral palsy, and inspiring everyone with his story. What I took away from this book is that anything is possible with a little hard work, and a whole lot of heart. If anyone asked me if they should read this book, I would say yes instantly. It is interesting, and it also addresses an important problem in our world today – prejudice. This book tells us that no matter how someone acts or looks like, we are all created equal on this one earth.

Author Note – Brenna got an A! Thanks for choosing my book for your report! Great job!

http://www.johnwquinn.com

My Interview on KVOA News 4 Tucson -

2010-07-14T21:00:00.000-07:00

Here is an interview I did recently for KVOA Tucson. I hope you enjoy it. Please continue to spread the word of Someone Like Me to your family and friends!

Don't forget that you can join me on Facebook and Twitter by clicking on the links I have on my website. Thanks so much!

Dream Big!

John

http://www.kvoa.com/news/authors-story-making-a-difference-for-others/

http://www.johnwquinn.com

The Wampler Foundation -

2010-07-03T13:27:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! Check out the great work that the Wampler Foundation is doing for kids with cerebral palsy. Steve Wampler sends these children to a week-long camp free of charge.

Great work, Steve!

http://www.wamplerfoundation.org/

http://www.johnwquinn.com

Pictures of My Recent Trip to Michigan -

2010-06-28T15:42:00.001-07:00

My Radio Interview with Hailey Wiseman -

2010-06-28T15:39:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! Here is an interview I did with the remarkable Hailey Wiseman. She is great and this is my favorite interview to date. Its 45 minutes in length and I hope you like it.

Dream Big! John

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/haileywiseman/2010/06/28/perseverance-faith-triumph

Interview on the Stan Milam Radio Show -

2010-06-27T18:40:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone! Here is a radio interview I did recently on the Stan Milam Radio Show. It's about 30 minutes in length and I hope you like it.

http://www.wclo.com/podcasts/stan-milam-show/2010/jun/15/overcoming-challenges-cp/

My speech to the 2010 graduates of Garden City High School -

2010-06-13T17:47:00.001-07:00

To the graduating class of 2010. I bet I know what's on many of your minds. Who is this guy and more importantly, how long is he going to talk because I have a party to get to? 30 years ago I had the same thoughts. Don't worry; this will just take a few minutes.

I grew up around here, over on Gilman Street. It's the big house with an anchor parked on the front lawn. My brother, Jim lives there now with his wife, Sallie and their two children. Jim is just one of my seven brothers and sisters raised in that home by my parents, Edgar and Shirley. Many of your parents might know my father by another name, his alter-ego of Fred the Ice Cream Man.

My childhood was fairly typical for children growing up in the 1970s. We played Nerf football out in the street, Home Run Derby on the corner lot, and rode our Schwinn Sting Ray bikes around the neighborhood until the streetlights came on.

But as nostalgic as my life on Gilman sounds, my childhood was considerably different from most kids because of one simple fact. I was born with cerebral palsy which is a condition where my brain and body don't communicate very well. CP affected the muscles in my legs and arms as well as the muscles that control movement of my eyes. I was in constant pain.

When I was a kid, Mom drove me a couple days a week to Children's Hospital where I underwent grueling physical therapy sessions with someone I refer to as the Administer of Pain. When not at Children's, I was made to do my exercises at home. It seemed like I was always striding around our living room with thick surgical rubber tubing looped around my skinny legs in the hope that they would grow strong and true. I walked with a limp, wore thick glasses and long pants all summer long.

As sick as I was growing up, my folks raised me to believe I was no different from anyone else and could accomplish anything I put my mind to. So when I told them that I wanted to join the junior high wrestling team, Dad said, "Sure, go ahead. Just don't come home crying saying it's too hard. Finish what you start, Mister." I never won a match during my entire wrestling career. But I kept my word to my father and never quit.

When I told my mom and dad of my life-long dream of joining the Navy, they patted me on the back and wished me luck.

Well, I failed the entrance physical needed to join the military. I fell over when ordered to get down in a catcher's squat. I was too weak to hold up my own body weight and was told the Navy couldn't use someone like me.

Arriving home in shame, I told Dad that I couldn't pass the physical because it was too hard. My father looked me square in the eye and said, "John, life is hard. Question is, what are you going to do about it?"

The next day found me down in the basement on that house on Gilman struggling to get into that catcher's squat. I worked out every day for a year in that musty cellar, and then tried to join the Navy again. I passed this time with flying colors. I think I was the best duck-walker in the entire building.

When blood poisoning ravaged my legs in boot camp and brought me to the brink of being discharged and sent home, I refused to give up on my dream. I kept at it. Ten grueling weeks later I graduated from basic training with my parents sitting proudly in the grandstands.

Graduates, you are going to leave here today and find out a few things fairly quickly. You'll learn there are people in this world that will place roadblocks in your way and smile as they do it. These folks will use words like "impossible"; "never"; or phrases like, "That's the way it's always been done around here."

I've met those people. And if I'd listened to them, I wouldn't be standing here today, a kid who left his hometown 30 years ago with a limp and a dream of serving his country only to return as a Senior Chief Petty Officer of the United States Navy. If I had listened, I wouldn't have never begun typing out my memoir which was recently published and now inspiring people all around the world.

Graduates. When you leave here, you will find that life is hard. My question to you is this -

What are you going to do about it?

May God Bless you all and may God continue to bless this great nation.

Thank you.

http://www.johnwquinn.com

Newspaper Article about Someone Like Me -

2010-05-20T10:51:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! Here is a newspaper article that appears in the Northwest Explorer newspaper dated 19 May 2010. I hope you enjoy it!

http://www.explorernews.com/articles/2010/05/18/el_sol/doc4bf318df108ba082219041.txt

Dream Big!

John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Mission Unstoppable Radio Show -

2010-05-20T10:44:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! Here is a link to the Mission Unstoppable Radio Show that I did recently with Frankie Picasso. Listen for a special call-in guest star - my best friend, Phil Freeman!

http//www.blogtalkradio.com/missionunstoppable/2010/05/12/john-quinns-navy-secret-hiding-cerebral-palsy-from

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Someone Like Me for Sale at Barnes & Noble in Scottsdale!

2010-05-08T22:11:00.000-07:00

Champagne Sunday Radio Show Interview -

2010-04-19T08:01:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! This is an interview that I did on the Champagne Sunday Radio Program on 18 April 2010. I hope you enjoy it - I had alot fun doing it.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/big-blend-radio/2010/04/18/champagne-sundays

Thanks - John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Born with Cerebral Palsy, Man Keeps His Condition a Secret to Join the Navy -

2010-04-13T20:08:00.000-07:00

Man Defeats Pain, Joins U.S. Navy and Climbs the Ranks, Every Painful Step a Secret

John Quinn born with cerebral palsy, endures intense pain, prepares one year for Navy physical and succeeds. Keeps CP a secret to avoid medical dismissal and climbs the ranks while dealing with other painful challenges of life. He tells his story in new book "Someone Like Me"

Palisades, NY (Issues Wire / PRWEB) April 8, 2010 -- John Quinn was born with cerebral palsy. He couldn’t walk before he was four years old and when he could walk, every step was painful. He learned to live with pain and when he tried to do something more than just walk, the pain was intense. But John Quinn wanted to be someone more than a man struggling with CP. He wanted to join the U.S. Navy.

His big brother had been a sailor and John Quinn wanted to be like him. But the Navy didn’t want him. He failed the physical because he couldn’t do the duck walk.The Navy records did not indicate that he had cerebral palsy, the records maintained that he couldn’t walk like a duck. So John Quinn underwent self -applied physical therapy which drove his pain threshold to a thin-air level. Every day for a full year without break, he put his legs in a pain-inducing harness and learned to walk like a duck. His new book "Someone Like Me. An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph Over Cerebral Palsy" tells of his ordeal and the remarkable years that followed.

John Quinn not only learned to walk like a duck but learned how to deal with a new intensity of pain. It enabled him to get in the U.S. Navy, keep secret his cerebral palsy a cause for medical dismissal, and have a 20 year career while climbing the ranks to senior chief petty officer. Retired Marine General Richard Neal, Quinn’s one-time commanding officer said “ 'Someone Like Me' will serve as an inspiration to a lot of people, not only those with CP, but just ordinary folks who want to read about someone who overcame adversity and succeeded in a most amazing way.”

And amazing was John Quinn’s success. Pain challenged his every step and he never faltered receiving numerous citations and awards. Physical pain, however, was not John Quinn’s only challenge. He learned to deal with emotional pain as a child when taunts and muffled laughter followed him as he walked with disjointed gait. He suffered intense spiritual pain when his brother committed suicide and he suffered the soul- searing pain and career- threatening envelopment of alcoholism that began when he frequently joined his buddies at the bar, to be “normal.”

John Quinn’s amazing story is of a man who not only accepted the challenges given to him by life, but of a man who defeated them and would not accept the limitations set for him by others. It is a book of the unconquerable human spirit.

"Someone Like Me, An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph Over Cerebral Palsy," 9781933909745, Chronology Books, History Publishing Company LLC, pub date April 15, 2010 will be in bookstores nationally and on internet sites worldwide.

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http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Enlighten Me Radio Interview -

2010-04-11T09:22:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! This is the radio interview that I did with host Joe Pena on his Enlighten Me radio show. Its 30 minutes in length and I hope you enjoy it.

http//www.joepenaproductions.com/?page_id=1985

Author Holds His Book For the First Time!

2010-04-10T19:03:00.001-07:00

That's the author John W. Quinn holding a copy of his memoir, Someone Like Me for the first time after receiving a box of them in the mail recently. What a feeling!

http://www.johnwquinn.com

My Radio Interview on Santa Cruz Radio

2010-03-26T14:05:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone!

I wanted to share the link of my first radio interview that I had yesterday on Santa Cruz radio FM 101.1. It starts just before the two hour mark and last for an hour. I hope you enjoy it.

http//www.radio4all.net/files/janea95076@yahoo.com/4012-1-tony_walker,_lew_hamburger,_held_hostage_and_lived_to_tell_the_story_hostage_therapist,_john_quinn,_navy_vet_with_cp.mp3

Thanks! John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Good Morning Arizona Interview -

2010-03-23T14:57:00.000-07:00

I wanted to post the link to my Good Morning Arizona interview. I hope you enjoy it.

http//www.azfamily.com/good-morning-arizona/John-Quinn---Someone-Like-Me-88932832.html

My Appearance on Good Morning Arizona -

2010-03-23T10:48:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! Just finished my appearance on Good Morning Arizona and everyone there was fantastic! To be honest, I am very relieved to get my first television appearance out of the way. I was a bit nervous, but think that things went well.

A couple of minor issues about my appearance - The news anchor introduced me as a Navy SEAL. As all my shipmates of SEAL Team THREE know, I am NOT a Navy SEAL and want to make this clear. She simply misread what was given to her. She did her best to clear this up at the start of the interview, but I wanted to let you all know that I did not represent myself as a Frogman to her.

Additionally, after just watching the interview for the first time, I saw that the shows producers put up a SEAL Trident in the background. I did not know that they were going to do this, it was completely the producers decision. If they would have told me they were going to do this, I would have had them put up a Enlisted Surface Warfare device since I am a surface sailor and that is what I have earned.

I just wanted to clear that up. I have the deepest respect for my SEAL friends and would never do anything to represent myself as a Frogman.

Thanks to everyone for your support on my first television interview. I will try and post the link as soon as I get it.

Go Navy - John

Events Listing -

2010-03-19T11:41:00.001-07:00

Hi guys! Do you want to know where I will be in the coming weeks and months as I travel around talking about Someone Like Me? Just click on the "Events" link on my website to see where I will be next.

We work hard on keeping everything current and up-to-date. Hopefully I will be appearing in a town near you very soon.

There are alot of exciting events coming up - so keep checking back, join my Fan Page on Facebook and thanks again for all the support!

Here is a link to my website -

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Keep charging! John

The Best Way to Send Along Your Thoughts or Comments -

2010-03-19T11:26:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! Did you want to send me some feedback about Someone Like Me and found that leaving a comment here on the blog confusing and difficult? First of all, sorry about that. Secondly, there are a couple of other ways you can contact me to ask a question, give a comment, or thoughts about my memoir. I would LOVE to hear from you!

I've set up an Official Fan Page on Facebook and many of my friends have been following me there. Just click on the link provided and it will take you right to the site. In just a few short months, I've attracted a following of over 1000 people! Its amazing! Come join the fun!

You can also email me directly thru the "Contact Me" link I've set up on my website. Just click on the link, then click on my email address. Again, I look forward to hearing from you and will personally answer each email as soon as I can.

Here is a link to my website:

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Thanks!

John

Someone Like Me Available For Pre-Order Now!

2010-03-19T10:52:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone! I just wanted to let you know that my memoir, Someone Like Me - An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph Over Cerebral Palsy, is now available for pre-order online. I've posted links to Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and Borders Books on my website under the "Buy The Book" link.

Many of you have been asking me about how to purchase an autographed copy of my book. Well, I'm pleased to say that you can now do that off my website as well. Again, its under the "Buy The Book" link. I will gladly personalize and sign your copy and get it back to you as soon as possible. It would make a nice gift for someone you love.

Here is the link to my website -

http://www.johnwquinn.com

Thanks for all the support - It's been wonderful!

Keep charging! John

Lastest Info on Someone Like Me -

2010-02-17T15:33:00.001-08:00

Hi everyone! I just received word that you will be able to pre-order Someone Like Me - An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph Over Cerebral Palsy on March 25, 2010. It will be available on the Amazon, Barnes and Noble websites as well as the History Publishing site.

I will post a link here on my website where you will be able to pre-order if you like. The book will ship on 15 April 2010. It will hopefully be in most major bookstores 01 September 2010.

I saw a proof of the book the other day and could not be prouder! I cannot wait for all of you to read it.

Keep charging! John

http://johnwquinn.com//

Book Cover and Release Date Set!

2009-11-17T06:48:00.001-08:00

Hi everyone. I just received a picture of the book cover and wanted to share it with you. What do you think? I have so many emotions when I see this - excited, proud, and very humbled.

Circle April 15, 2010 on your calendars - That's the day when Someone Like Me will be on your bookstore shelves! Tell all your friends and don't forget that you can also follow me on Facebook and Twitter.

Thanks for all the support - John

www.johnwquinn.com

One Person Helping Another -

2009-11-15T14:47:00.000-08:00

I was contacted through this website recently by a mother looking for support for her young daughter. Her words are so powerful that I wanted to share them with you here.

John,

I came across your story because I have a 17 year old daughter with Cerebral Palsy and she is just MISERABLE right now. I have been surfing the web in trying to find any advice about the difficulty just dealing with having cp. She is a senior at Charlotte Catholic High School and she is hoping to study physiology at High Point University in the Fall. Jamie is not able to walk and gets around in a power chair. I’m real excited about your book coming out and I know it will help her a lot. I enjoyed very much just reading that one page and I can’t wait for the book to come out. If you have any advice for me right now, I’d love to hear from you. Thank you for taking the time to read my note.

Sincerely, Laura

I offered some words of encouragement and told Laura that in fact her daughter inspires ME! A portion of Laura's response goes as follows:

Wow! These were the most uplifting words I have ever heard! I thank you, from the bottom of my heart for your encouraging words. Jamie said she feels sooooo much better knowing in her heart, she is not alone. I printed out your note last night and had her read it this morning (at 5:00am she is up for school) and she almost started to cry and said she will think of those words you said throughout her day when she is feeling sad. She also said, “hey, maybe I’ll write a book one day about my story”. On her way getting on the bus, she said, “I think I will write that book mom”

You know John, it’s funny. I used to pray to God for Jamie to walk. I said I could not deal with the pain of her having to be in a wheelchair. Now, I pray every day for Jamie to just be happy. I use the words, Dear God, it’s me again….. because life has been very tough on my little girl lately. I know Jamie’s life will be complete someday, it’s just been a little tough lately. I believe when God closes a door he opens a window. I know her door has been shut lately, you opened our window with your beautiful words.

God bless you and the very best of luck with your book. She is so excited about reading it! I would love to meet you one day and I have found without her disability, we would never know such wonderful people like yourself.

We’ll be in touch… Laura

I am in the process of putting together a list of resource links that I will attach to this website. It'll include blogs for teens with CP, inspirational stories, and various support groups that are waiting to hear from you. In the meantime, please remember that you are never alone. Pick up the phone, call a friend or loved one, shoot someone an email or a Tweet. Let them know how you're feeling - its important. No one should suffer in silence.

And remember, there is always hope. Right, Laura?

Keep charging! John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Vulnerability -

2009-11-05T17:11:00.000-08:00

In my book Someone Like Me, An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph over Cerebral Palsy which is scheduled to be released in April 2010, I tell of lying about my handicap and wanting so badly to appear "normal." Some of my friends with CP have called me on that. What's wrong with being who I am? Obviously I now have the self-confidence it takes to be different and proud, but that wasn't always the case. I hated not being able to ice skate, run gracefully or attract women.

Diversity classes abound nowadays, but "different" still often translates to "less than." I've been ridiculed for the way I walk, the way I look at people, and for just standing there trembling. It takes great maturity to get past that, and accept who I am. I tried drinking as a means of fitting in and dulling my life. That didn't work. I tried hiding my symptoms. That helped to some extent, but left me feeling like a hypocrite.

Ultimately my self-esteem was built on perserverence and personal motivation, both which led me to success on the job and at life in general. Success feels good, writing the book felt good.

Now that I'm soon to open my life and heart up to inspection by my readers, I have to confess that some of that old vulnerability has crept back in. Will I be scorned, ridiculed or laughed at?

I'll let you be the judge.

Keep charging - John

www.johnwquinn.com

Pushing Yourself to Find your Ability -

2009-10-27T15:14:00.000-07:00

The word disability really bothers me. Look at the word again. I am not an English major, but I know that the prefix “dis” means the absence of. So the word disability means the absence of ability. If that’s the case, then yes, I have a disability. I cannot do fractions. In fact, when it comes to anything having to do with math, I struggle mightily. When it comes to home improvements or car repairs, I don’t know which end of the screwdriver to hold. Another disability.

But there are many areas of my life in which I am very capable. Some big, others small. Everyone has some ability to offer this world. You just have to find it. It might be hidden deep down inside you, just yearning to come out. For my disabled friends, don’t let your handicap hold you back. Don’t listen to the people that tell you it cannot be done. My parents told me that I could do anything that I put my mind to and I believe that to be true for anyone, regardless of obstacles faced. If you don’t push yourself to find your ability, who will? Franklin Delano Roosevelt suffered with polio and became President of the United States. Albert Einstein didn’t talk until the age of three and was severely dyslexic. The English author/poet Milton lost his sight at the age of 43 and then wrote the classic tale Paradise Lost. How about Bonnie St. John who won silver and two bronze medals in the 1984 Paralympic Games as a ski racer; graduated with honors from Harvard University won a Rhodes Scholarship to Oxford. Did I fail to mention that Bonnie has one leg? What would the world be like if these people had given up? Can you imagine FDR saying, “I can’t do it, it’s too hard.”

Have you always wanted to paint but thought it was a waste of time? Perhaps you've felt a strong desire to get up on stage in your community theater but were ridiculed when you shared your dream out loud? I have been laughed at. Most people thought it was nuts for a guy with cerebral palsy to even dream of joining the Navy. Mocking turned to cheers 20 years later when I retired as a Senior Chief Petty Officer. When I decided I wanted to write my memoir, some scoffed. “You’ve never written anything before. “What makes you think you can write a book?” Well, Someone Like Me, An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph over Cerebral Palsy is scheduled to be released in April 2010. It appears that I have the ability to put my thoughts down on paper is such a way that others enjoy reading them.

You might not become President of the United States, discover new math theories, or write an epic novel. But then again, you might. So I ask you. What’s your ability?

Keep charging! John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Latest info on Someone Like Me -

2009-10-23T09:51:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone. Wanted to give you all an update on whats going on with Someone Like Me. I picked out the cover this past week and am really happy on how it looks! I will post it as soon as I am able.

I found out yesterday that the release date of the book has been pushed back a bit. Originally scheduled to be released on 17 March 2010, we are now targeting early April 2010. As soon as the release date gets firmed up, I will post that date here as well.

Don't forget that you can follow me on Facebook and Twitter. Just click on the links provided on my homepage. I look forward to seeing you there!

Thanks! John

www.johnwquinn.com

Already Changing Lives...

2009-09-21T15:45:00.000-07:00

My book, Someone Like Me isn't even out yet and already it's changing lives. The following is from Edward A. Hurvitz, M.D. Associate Professor and Chair, James Rae Collegiate Professor who heads up the Department of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation at the University of Michigan. Dr. Hurvitz writes:

"When is the last time that you read a book and it changed the way you think? When is the last time that a book led to a change in how you conducted yourself in your career? “Someone Like Me, An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph over Cerebral Palsy” by John Quinn did that for me.

I have been treating individuals with cerebral palsy for over 20 years at the University of Michigan. I am a Pediatric Rehabilitation Medicine Specialist, and I speak to families with children who have cerebral palsy about all aspects of their lives including movement, language, education, and their child’s future. Over the years, many of my patients have stayed with me as they grew into adulthood, and they present now with new and different problems.

There are hundreds of thousands of adults with cerebral palsy in the United States. Many, like John, live and work side by side with their non-disabled peers, overcoming challenges on a daily basis. Although cerebral palsy does not get worse, the effects it has on the body tend to increase with age. Pain is a common complaint, limiting mobility and the ability to perform functional tasks. Muscle tightness, early joint arthritis, and other medical problems interfere more with life as the person ages. These problems can also limit physical activity, which then leads to more pain, muscle and joint complications. Adults with cerebral palsy also face difficulties getting proper medical care since so few specialists have, until recently, been interested in their health issues. Pediatric specialists only want to see children, and adult specialists do not have adequate information about cerebral palsy.

Based on the potential for the problems noted above, one standard of care for teens and young adults with cerebral palsy was to advise them to seek careers and lifestyles that would not challenge them physically. I always taught students and resident physicians to counsel them about computer work and other sedentary, less active careers combined with mild to moderate exercise. I did not meet John Quinn as a teen, but if I had, I could imagine myself saying something like, “After all, John, you are not exactly cut out for the Navy Seals!”

“Someone Like Me, An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph over Cerebral Palsy” has opened my eyes to a new horizon for individuals with cerebral palsy. As a rehabilitation physician, my goal has always been to open doors and increase opportunities for young people with disabilities. However, I see that I have not advised my patients to push the horizon enough. Thanks to John Quinn, I now know that given determination, bravery and desire, much more is possible for my patients than I could imagine before. This book is a must for every physician, therapist, and other caregiver that treats individuals with cerebral palsy or any other disability. It also is a must for every young person who ever looked at a goal and thought it was just out of reach. Perhaps he or she should look again.

Luck of the Irish?

2009-09-04T20:56:00.000-07:00

My publisher, History Publishing Company informs me that they are targeting 17 March 2010 as the release date for my book! As an Irishman whose last name is Quinn, I take that as a great omen because of course its St. Patrick's Day! So mark your calendars, shine up that four leaf clover and be one of the first in line to purchase Someone Like Me on St. Patrick's Day, 2010!

May the road rise up to meet you - John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Wanted to share some reader comments -

2009-08-30T18:21:00.000-07:00

My website has been up for less than a week and the comments for Someone Like Me are coming in from around the country. I am so moved by the outpouring of emotion that I wanted to share a few of the wonderful emails I have received -

"...I have a mild case of CP. I am awed by you. I have done a lot in my life, but never dreamed of joining any military organization. I did not think it was possible. I know that you must have faced great challenges. In our lives we face great adversity. I found a role model in you. Thank you for sharing your story. I eagerly anticipate reading it. I have emailed friends, family, and the entire staff at the school I work at as a teacher aid. The librarian already plans to purchase it for the school library. Everyone needs to read your story. The impossible is now possible for all..."

"...I look forward to reading it and passing it along to my 19 yr old niece who has CP..."

"...I am very much looking forward to the release of your book. My older sister (age 36) has Cerebral Palsy, and although it was not me with the condition…I too have the taunts and laughter running through my head that she endured for a couple of decades. I remember her coming home in tears, always being last in track in field races, longing to dance ballet but never progressing past the beginning level classes even at age 13…difficulties getting complicated clothes on, the last to be picked for group activites—the list goes on. I read the first chapter of your book here at work (my sister sent me the link) and I have all these emotions I can’t express…but I want you to know I am so pleased you wrote this book, I can’t wait to read it, and I do believe it will have a huge impact on people with muscular disorders and there families who have been ostracized and outcasts..."

"...Some people want to "say something" and never reach the hearts of others. Their words locked in silence except for times proven of their ignorance and unlearned behavior. And then, there are people like YOU who have "something to say". Open up a world of knowledge, feed the wise and pour out words of encouragement. Not just for the individual walking in the same shoes as yours, but also for those like me who deal with other health issues, equally deserving of thoughtful guidance by your incredibly powerful and loving spirit. Your story so far has inspired me to write more music and I can’t wait to read the book to complete my scores..."

Simply wonderful.

Stay strong - John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

First Book Endorsement!

2009-08-30T18:12:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone. Wanted to let you in on some exciting news. The University of Michigan is going to endorse my book! I received an email from the Departmental Chair of Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation who made this generous offer. The U of M had conducted a ground breaking study which focused on cerebral palsy in adults for which I was a participant. I am humbled by the endorsement of such a fine institution. Go Blue!

Keep charging! John

http://www.johnwquinn.com/

Welcome to my Website!

2009-08-25T13:50:00.000-07:00

Welcome and thanks for stopping by! I sure do appreciate you taking the time to visit.

My name is John Quinn and I have written my memoir titled Someone Like Me - An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph over Cerebral Palsy. It is going to be published by History Publishing Company in 2010 and I couldn't be more excited! Don't know the exact release date of the book yet, but I will post that information here as soon as I get it.

Feel free to shoot me a line, write me a letter or follow my adventures on Facebook or Twitter. I look forward to hearing from you!

Keep charging!

John

ps - Don't I look sharp as a 4 year old? Love the scuff marks on those "special shoes".

http://www.johnwquinn.com/